QOTW!
(Question Of The Week)
I'm in a tight spot at the moment. You know when you went through something in the past more than once and initially you have that intuition [that I now learned to follow] and you're in the same situation again?! ugh, I hate that feeling of having to be in that position again, where I must make a tough decision and I cant help but to think of the previous outcome. They say, you shouldn't hold on to negative experiences from the past because each situation and time is different from the next, but I just have this spaced out feeling inside. I'm trying to weigh out the good and the bad, but I just can't seem to decide :/
Do you think people should let go of past [negative]experiences? because hey, not everyone/everything is the same the next time around?
I'm in a tight spot at the moment. You know when you went through something in the past more than once and initially you have that intuition [that I now learned to follow] and you're in the same situation again?! ugh, I hate that feeling of having to be in that position again, where I must make a tough decision and I cant help but to think of the previous outcome. They say, you shouldn't hold on to negative experiences from the past because each situation and time is different from the next, but I just have this spaced out feeling inside. I'm trying to weigh out the good and the bad, but I just can't seem to decide :/
Do you think people should let go of past [negative]experiences? because hey, not everyone/everything is the same the next time around?
i think you should remember the lessons from the things that happened to you and TRY not to judge new ppl and new experiences based on your old point of reference. It is extremely hard and I struggle with it myself. I try not to look at everyone and everything as the same, but sometimes the same types of patterns keep coming up! :/
ReplyDeleteyes! exactly..its so hard to separate the two. I try to hold on to the lessons learned but my mind is so hesitant to let it happen again. So I guess there is ntn we can do but take chances in life, and hope that the outcome wont be the same, the second or even third time around :/
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